Hello, my name is Wendy!

I am a lifestyle blogger, content marketer, YouTuber and an aspiring social entrepreneur. I know, that’s many different labels for this tiny ass, four-feet eleven Asian girl but that’s me. Your typical ENFP – the one with a lot of ideas and many friends. The extraverted, expressive and very emotional energizer bunny.

I used to be the most driven, fearless and happy person in the room until depression and PTSD hit me when I was 21 as a result of a traumatic event. Since then, a part of me changed. I had to learn to deal with the irreparable hole in my heart while I figure out how to adult. Searching for my purpose in life, learning to handle my finances, trying to achieve work-life balance, all the while making my Asian parents proud. Is that even humanly possible? #thestruggleisreal

I had been blogging here since 2008 (yeap it’s been almost 10 years now) and this blog is my baby that have been through thick and thin with me. It is a lifestyle blog where I share my learnings in staying healthy and productive, my experience in starting my own creative business, my love for books and music, my henna/photography/music art pieces, and many more. It is a space I created to spread love and share the realness of life on the internet.

Welcome, and I hope you enjoy your time here!

xx Wendy


  1. I am obsessed with avocados.
  2. I am a quarter Dutch, 3 quarter Malaysian-Chinese. 
  3. I lived in the ever Beautiful British Columbia, Canada for 4 years throughout my university life. 
  4. My parents didn’t pay for my entire tertiary education and living expenses abroad because I got a big fat scholarship.
  5. I went through 11 years of all-girl school and have 2 sisters, even my sister’s kids are girls. #GIRLPOWER 
  6. I drive a 16-year old manual car. 
  7. My Tinder profile (before I deleted the app) says “My passion for cheesecake and ice-cream is equal to my passion for yoga and running” – Yeap, they still are! 
  8. And yes, I’m still single.
  9. I love singing and I play the guitar and ukulele. They appear on my YouTube channel occasionally.
  10. I enjoy random adventures like hiking and giving free hugs and eating bugs, but I also enjoy sitting in my bed in my PJs with a good book. 
  11. Yes, I take my bucket list a little bit too seriously.
  12. I was never a sports person my entire life. I only started working out during university after gaining freshman 15.
  13. I ran my first half marathon in May 2016.
  14. I’ve successfully helped many girls switch from pads to tampons and menstrual cup.
  15. Lady Gaga > Beyonce

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